I happen to have a colleague around me, just like you told me. He was born in 74, and he was handsome when he was young, but he was hopelessly fascinated. From mahjong, cards to the internet, gambling lost hundreds of thousands. All three girlfriends finally left. Later, after his thirties, he suddenly changed, gave up all gambling addiction and began to live a quiet life. Every day besides going to work, I just play with my mobile phone. Never participated in social activities, never went out to eat and drink, and never said to find another girlfriend. It&;s almost three point one line. It&;s almost 50, and even our colleagues are worried about him, but he is in no hurry. Therefore, I think that older &”;middle-aged&”; people like this usually have several characteristics: they made major mistakes when they were young and missed the best love age. I don&;t have good conditions, but I still don&;t work hard. Escape from reality and dilute responsibility. Be a monk for a day and hit the bell for a day. In fact, a character like this is completely cultivated and has become a stubborn person, which is hard to change. The sad ending in the future is almost foreseeable. Illness, loneliness, world-weariness … So I think the best hope is to wake up. 50-year-olds have heard too much chicken soup and seen too much worldly wisdom. The only thing you need is to overcome yourself. As the internet says, from this moment on, you will become stronger, then you will only be a late bloomer at most! And if you let yourself go, you will die alone. That&;s all, right and wrong, judge for yourself.