Walking in the street, if someone asks you to borrow 3 yuan and 13 yuan, don&;t borrow them. This is a &”;three-yuan scam&”;. If you borrow them, you will probably lose hundreds, thousands or even more. Always cautious, I fell into the trap step by step, which is really impossible to prevent! During the National Day holiday in 2019, I went back to my hometown by bus alone. I work in the provincial capital. My hometown is a remote country in the southeast of Shandong. There is no direct train and high-speed train from the provincial capital to our county, but there is a bus to our town every day. The bus leaves from the bus station at exactly 7: 20 every morning, but I got up a little late that day, and by the time I hurried to the bus station, the bus had already left. In desperation, I can only buy a bus ticket to our city. I plan to take the bus to the city first, and then transfer from the city to our town. Although it was a holiday, I got on the bus soon because it was not eight o&;clock in the morning and there were not many people in the bus station. When I sat down, I breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that it would be a lot of trouble. If it goes well, I should be home around two o&;clock in the afternoon. What I never expected at that time was that a few hours later, I would be taught a lesson on my own turf. After arriving at the bus station in our hometown city, I&;m going to take a taxi home directly. There are many vans waiting to carry passengers at the gate of the bus station. If I can find a few people to carpool with me, it will cost about the same as taking a bus. I walked out with my head down while thinking, and suddenly someone stood in front of me and stopped me. I looked up and found a strange woman. She looks young, about 30 years old, with fine features. Although her clothes are not very fashionable, at least she is clean and neat. The most important thing is that she still has a child in her arms. My first reaction was that she wanted to ask me for directions. As a result, she just asked me for money. &”;Sister, I&;m in a hurry, I don&;t have any money with me, and my child is thirsty. Can you lend me 3 yuan to buy a bottle of water for my child?&”; Since it has become more and more convenient to pay by mobile phone, I seldom carry cash with me, but it was a coincidence that day, considering that I had to take a bus to go back to my hometown, so I prepared a few dollars in change in my backpack. At that time, I was still struggling for a while, secretly wondering if she would be a liar. Don&;t have any money with you? Don&;t you have any money in your mobile phone? I glanced at the child and found that the child&;s lips were really chapped, so I couldn&;t help thinking: If she is a good person and I refuse to help her, wouldn&;t it be too popular in cool thin? Anyway, it&;s only three dollars, even if it&;s cheated, it&;s nothing. So I found three coins from my bag and handed them to the woman. As a result, I was stopped by her when I turned to leave. She looked a little embarrassed, and carefully tried to say, &”;Sister, can you lend me another ten dollars? My child and I haven&;t eaten for a long time, and I want to buy her a bowl of noodles.&”; I frowned and thought that I might have really met a liar. She seemed to see my idea and explained in a hurry: &”;Sister, I&;m not a liar. I lent you the money. You add mine. When I have money, I&;ll transfer it to you.&”;You &”;She saw that I was still a little hesitant, so she continued:&”; The child has been crying for several times, so please be kind, or we don&;t need money, you can buy us bread or noodles. &”; As soon as her words were finished, the child in her arms began to cry, and I couldn&;t help feeling pity. I was a little hungry, so I took them to a ramen restaurant next to the station, went in and asked for two bowls of Lamian Noodles, one for me and one for her and her children. I thought I was a smart, careful and cautious person, but I didn&;t expect to fall into her trap step by step. While eating noodles, I asked her where she came from and what she was doing. She said that she is a housewife, and she usually has to ask her husband for a penny. Her husband is very picky about her and gives her no more than 200 yuan at a time. This time, she quarreled with her in-laws and was driven out by her husband. She wanted to take the children back to her parents&; home by car, but she found that she didn&;t have any money on her. I have some sympathy for her. &”;You can ask your parents to transfer some money to you, or you can&;t take your children back to your parents&; house without money.&”; She gave a wry smile: &”;My parents always thought I was doing well. If I told them, wouldn&;t it be a hindrance to them?&”; How dare I ask them for money? &”; &”;You can borrow it from a friend.&”; &”;I&;m a far-away married woman and I take care of my children at home every day. I don&;t have any friends here.&”; I thought I would pay for her if the fare to her parents&; home was one hundred and eighty, but as a result, she said it would cost more than eight hundred, and I immediately gave up the idea. Although I sympathize with her, I can&;t help a stranger with 800 yuan at once. I bowed my head and was silent. She suddenly begged me and said, &”;Sister, you are a good man. Can you be a good man and lend me another thousand dollars?&”; &”;Sister, it&;s not that I don&;t want to lend it to you, but I don&;t have so much money on me.&”; I thought to myself, I&;m really annoying myself. After that, I quickly picked up my backpack and prepared to go, for fear that I would be entangled by her if I was late. Holding the child in one hand, she tugged at my arm in the other and said, &”;Sister, don&;t go in a hurry. Listen to me first.&”; At this time, the child began to cry loudly again, and everyone around me was looking at us. I had to sit down helplessly and let her talk quickly with a cold face. &”;Sister, you see this line not line, my mobile phone is Apple, my husband just gave it to me on my birthday not long ago. I know you don&;t trust me. I&;ll give you my mobile phone. Can you give me two thousand dollars? I really can&;t help it. &”; I wasn&;t impressed at first, but she bit her teeth. &”;Don&;t want two thousand, just give me one thousand, sister, please help me. If you resell your mobile phone, you can at least sell four or five thousand dollars.&”; To tell the truth, when she said 1000 yuan, my heart moved. I took her mobile phone and looked at it carefully. It looks really new. It&;s a new model from last year. It works smoothly. A thousand dollars is definitely worth the money. It&;s time for my dad&;s cell phone to be changed. I can give my dad my cell phone, and then I can use hers. So I agreed, and she thanked me again and again with a look of surprise. She gave me her mobile phone, so I couldn&;t transfer money to her, so I had to find a place to exchange 1000 yuan in cash for her. She said when she handed me her mobile phone.The mobile phone is automatically turned off without power. Let me go home and turn it on after it is fully charged. Silly, I ignored a very important question at that time: she said that her husband was very picky about her, so how could her husband buy her such a good mobile phone as a birthday present? I put my mobile phone in my pocket, and I couldn&;t say how happy and excited I was. When I arrived in our town, I bought a durian that I was always reluctant to buy, and then I went home happily. I didn&;t look at my mobile phone carefully when I was on the road, but I soon realized that something was wrong with it when I got home. Although it looks exactly like the real machine, it feels heavy and feels good, but no matter which key is pressed, there is no response, and the place where the card is placed can&;t be poked with a needle. My heart is cold: this is a model machine, not a real machine at all. However, the mobile phone that the woman first showed me was really a real machine, because I still operated it for a while and tried the response of the mobile phone. The problem lies in the last link, that is, when the woman finally handed me her mobile phone, she replaced it with a model machine. It&;s really careless to lose Jingzhou! It&;s too late to regret it. You can only blame yourself for being too simple and greedy! As the saying goes, with this experience and lesson, after that, someone asked me to borrow money on the street. I won&;t borrow it again anyway, and I won&;t even talk to them much. I just walk away and hide far away. Someone in the street asks you to borrow money, so don&;t borrow it. More than 90% of it is routine. Once you borrow it, you will be fooled. What are the routines of people who ask you to borrow money on the street? 1. Ask you to borrow 3 yuan and 13 yuan instead of asking you to borrow ten or twenty dollars directly. We can&;t have the exact change on us. It&;s probably only five, ten, twenty or fifty dollars. 3 yuan doesn&;t sound like much. Many people will borrow it for good deeds, but when they take out the money, they find that they have no change. They are too embarrassed to go back on their word when they promise to borrow it, and finally they have to give it five dollars, ten dollars or more. 2. Lie that you have lost your wallet or mobile phone and ask you to borrow some money for dinner or accommodation. They may give you a business card or leave you one, so that you can contact him in a few days, and he will return the money you borrowed. Some people borrow it without any doubt, but they still think they have done something good in their hearts. You can wait for it afterwards, or someone will answer it, but the other party doesn&;t know the person you are talking about at all. 3. Take the child, lie that the child is hungry, and ask you to lend money to buy food or use for the child. If you lend them money, they will continue to ask you for it. If you don&;t, they will try their best to impress you and let you buy things for your children. When you buy something for your children, as soon as your front foot leaves, their back foot will return it and exchange it for money. 4. I lied that I was looking for a friend. As a result, my friend couldn&;t contact me, and my mobile phone and wallet were stolen. In order to raise the road fare home, I should give you the watch I wore or the necklace I wore around my neck cheaply. If you really agree, you will be fooled, because his watch and necklace may not even be worth ten dollars. 5. Out of sympathy, when you took out your wallet or mobile phone to lend them money, they took your wallet or mobile phone directly while you were unprepared. What other common routines are there on the street? 1. Go.Someone asks you to sell high-end mobile phones or shoes on the street. This kind will usually appear near the railway station or bus station, and they will tell you that the mobile phone is from someone else, so the price is very cheap. If you believe it, you&;ll be fooled, because when the mobile phone reached you, it was already replaced by them, and what you got was either a fake or a model. Shoes are the same pattern. 2. Find someone to stay. This kind is also near the railway station and bus station. After getting off the bus, someone will follow you closely and tell you that their accommodation is very cheap and close to the station. If you believe it, follow them, and he will take you a long way, take you to a shabby little hotel, and then bid you a price, and they won&;t let you go until you pay. 3. Pick up money. Don&;t pick up money on the roadside casually, especially in large amounts. Don&;t think that pies will fall from the sky, and if they do, they won&;t fall on you. If you pick it up, someone will come and say that he lost the money and ask if you have found it. After you give it to him, he will say that the amount is wrong, and then his accomplices will run out and accuse you. 4. I want to borrow your mobile phone. The other party claimed that he had lost his mobile phone, borrowed yours, and then ran away with your mobile phone when you were not paying attention. 5. Let you take care of things. The man was carrying a lot of things, and then said that he was going to do something, and asked you to take care of it. After he left, a man would come over soon and said that the man had asked him to come and get things. As soon as the things were taken away, the man came back with a few people, and your trouble came. We must be careful when going out. It is a good thing to do good and help others, but we should also pay attention to certain precautions when helping others, and don&;t let ourselves regret it.