Over the years, what life have you gradually discovered?

I am 54 years old this year. Let me sum up: 1. Money can solve more than 90% of the problems, and 10% of the problems need more money to solve. 2. Only money and health are the most reliable in this world. No matter what kind of person you are, you will have a miserable old age. 4. When people reach the age of 50 or 60, most of them have learned to be timid, including in front of their children. 5, don&;t help others unconditionally, because small kindness and small hatred, great kindness and great hatred. 6. In this world, no one wants you to live better than your parents. 7. Envy and hatred are more likely to arise between brothers and sisters. 8, the society is not good and rewarded, but why do adults educate children to be kind? 9. It is true that &”;poor people are crafty and rich in conscience&”;. 10. Keeping away from garbage people will really make your life more comfortable. 11. Don&;t have too much communication with people with a large cognitive gap, or you will waste your time and energy. 12. Your kindness can touch yourself, but it may not touch others. 13. Don&;t try to change a person with low moral quality and behavior habits, which is impossible. 14. You can&;t marry someone whose parents don&;t have a pension. It&;s not just a question of money. 15. &”;Phoenix Man&”; and &”;Fung Wong-Nui&”; are mostly &”;professional thieves&”;. 16. Studying hard as a student, getting into a good university and getting a high degree is the most efficient labor in life. 17. The marriage happiness index of the right family is higher. 18. Being a self-disciplined person, life will not be much worse. 19. Running will not only bring you good health, but also make all aspects of your life better. 20. When people reach middle age, they gradually understand that it is right to stay away from ineffective social interaction. 21, make any decision from the perspective of interests, not from the perspective of feelings, right and wrong. 22. Once you lose the value of being used, all your relationships are gone. 23. Marriage is also a financial transaction. 24. How to treat teenagers in the rebellious period is really a science. 25. Choice is greater than effort, which is correct in some cases. Don&;t complain to others easily, only you can help you. 27. Conflicts between brothers and sisters are mostly due to the uneven distribution of inheritance. 28. The person who hurts you the most is often your closest person. 29, people are poor, and they are too light to persuade people. 30, no profit can not afford to get up early, everyone is the same. 31. It is true to live a good life and mind other people&;s business. 32. It is not until middle age that people realize that smoking and drinking are not beneficial, but absolutely harmful to others and themselves. 33. Don&;t treat the courtesy and perfunctory of others as a promise and friendship. Make a clear distinction. Don&;t be afraid of loneliness. Being lonely is not lonely, and you will feel very happy. 35, blindly accommodating others, wronged themselves, will only spoil others and kill themselves. 36. When visiting other people&;s homes, be sure to bring gifts. 37. Many times, we only know how to cherish it when we lose it. 38. Have a long and happy marriage and get a father.Mother&;s support is very important. 39. Once the feelings of husband and wife, friends and relatives are cracked, they can&;t be repaired at all. 40. Gifts must be delivered well. 41. Consider the success rate first, and then ask for help. 42. reciprocity is a must. 43. When you have a serious illness, you can see the people and things around you clearly. 44. Time can smooth everything out. 45. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and colleagues is doomed to be bad. 46. Money brings you not only material things, but also helps you win the respect of people around you. 47. Silence is golden and truth. 48. Talking well between brothers and sisters is an important way to maintain family ties. 49. Respect a woman who talks about the bride price with you. If the dowry is rich, it means that she wants to spend a lifetime with you. The standard of a good man is that he can earn more money than his wife can spend. The standard of a good woman is to find such a husband. 51. Don&;t test human nature. Human nature can&;t stand the test. Don&;t talk about your family affairs in the office. Otherwise, your family affairs will become the talk of others. 53. The opposite sex confidant will have an accident sooner or later. 54. Are you getting healthier? Is your career getting more and more successful? Your money has accumulated, is it getting more and more? It is an important criterion to test the success of your love and marriage. 55. I don&;t know what to do? Just go for a run. Running is to kill peers. 56. Do a sideline after work. 57. &”;Minimalist life&”; is a very good living condition. 58. Selling or throwing away extra daily necessities and clothes is a good way to tidy up the room. 59. People who can give up smoking are tough characters. 60. Staying up late hurts the body, but there are still many people staying up late. That&;s to relieve stress. 61. Don&;t push too hard in everything, otherwise it will make your mentality worse. 62. Pay attention to causality and long-term accumulation. 63. Find a project that suits you and has long-term benefits, and stick to it. After ten years, you will surpass 80% of your peers.


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