What are the &”;taboos&”; for families to reduce &”;internal friction&”;

1. After the son gets married, parents should stop being the master, taboo! 2, women don&;t have anything to do, if they have nothing to do, they will go back to their parents&; homes. Too frequent will really make the husband&;s family think more and the internal friction will continue! 3, don&;t get too close to the opposite sex, get too close, even if it&;s nothing, it will make your partner suspicious, and the relationship between husband and wife is hard to go back to the past! 4, after marriage, some things men must have a sense of border with their parents, such as underwear, don&;t let parents help buy it again! 5. In the public area of the house, don&;t put too much personal things of the elderly, too much will lead to internal friction! 6. When you become a husband and wife, don&;t mention your partner&;s predecessor. This is really creating contradictions! 7. In family life, if you can&;t make money, you must do the housework well. You must always pay on the one hand, and the family can be more harmonious! 8. It is best for women not to participate in the courtesy of their in-laws, and it is best for men not to ask about their wives&; family! 9. No one in the family should get involved in bad habits, otherwise it may ruin the family! 10. If there is a contradiction between husband and wife, don&;t be angry overnight. If you are angry and hurt your body, your relationship will continue to consume! 11, men don&;t say that work is tired, and women are tired of taking care of their children. Only by understanding each other can families be more harmonious! 12. No matter how badly the daughter-in-law does, the elderly should not be reprimanded. You must know that the daughter-in-law is not a daughter, and it is possible to make enemies by reprimanding! 13. Don&;t talk about what your daughter brings, and don&;t always say &”;good&”; things, which will only make your daughter-in-law think more! 14. Before the age of 60, the elderly should not expect their sons and daughters-in-law to support the elderly. They may still be struggling. If they rely on them too early, there will be more family conflicts! 15. Women should not take care of their parents too much, and men should not take care of their brothers too much! 16. It is best for husband and wife to be economical and transparent and undefended! 17. Even husband and wife should be given independent space and time, otherwise life will be too depressing and contradictions will follow! 18. It is normal for families to have contradictions. Don&;t always think of family members as bad. The more you think about it, the harder it is to get out, and finally it becomes internal friction! 19. No matter how good the husband and wife are, don&;t be too close in front of the old people. This is disrespect for them! 20. The rooms of sons and daughters-in-law are always taboo for the elderly. Don&;t enter them casually without their permission, even if they are cleaned! 21. If you can solve things between husband and wife by yourself, don&;t ask the elderly. If you rely too much on the elderly, there will be contradictions between husband and wife! 2. In terms of educating children, both husband and wife should reach an agreement, and the elderly had better not participate! 23. Women should not be too strong, and men should not be too macho, which will cause the internal friction of the family! 24. When encountering things, it is best for husband and wife to discuss, and don&;t be good at making claims. Only when husband and wife trust each other can families live in harmony! 25. While husband and wife struggle, they also need a little romance, a little romance, a better relationship between husband and wife, and less internal friction in the family! 26. The hearts of two generations can&;t think in one place, and they can&;t work in one place. It&;s best to live separately! 27. The old man at home is ill, so the money that should be paid out must be paid out, otherwise it may affect the relationship between husband and wife! 28. The old man should not inquire about things between his son and daughter-in-law, and fight.Listening will only make people bored! 29. When staying at home, women should pay attention to their image, don&;t wear a sling, and walk around in the living room, especially when there are old people in the living room! 30. Even if the elderly are old, they should study and learn something new. Don&;t always bother their sons and daughters-in-law, they are also very busy! 31. It is best not to use the money of the elderly. If you use too much, there will be contradictions and you will become your own dependence! 32. When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is very important for a man to know how to marry his wife first! 33. When people are old, the more they should pay attention to their image, they are always sloppy and will only make their daughter-in-law disgusted! 34. When there is a contradiction at home, the most taboo thing is to turn over old accounts and let the contradiction expand infinitely! 35. When returning home from work, it is necessary for the elderly not to chat around their sons, but to learn to make room for their sons and daughters-in-law! 36, the elderly help with the children, women should not complain about the bad, what they did not do, never say that others did not do well, otherwise it will only make people bored! 37, men don&;t offend the brother-in-law, women don&;t offend the sister-in-law, will affect the harmony of the family! 38. When a husband and wife are in conflict, a woman should never criticize her mother in front of her in-laws, which will only increase the conflict! 39, son daughter-in-law quarrel, the old man had better stay away, you can&;t help it, you can only say son! 40. There is a contradiction between husband and in-laws, and women should not participate, otherwise it will be a fire! 41, to save money, without money, family conflicts will increase, but not as those know it who have been poor together! 42, at any time, don&;t bring the mood at work to home, otherwise the home will be very depressed, and contradictions will break out sooner or later! 43. If you don&;t like something, you must say it. Don&;t hold it in your heart. The more you hold it in your heart, the more uncomfortable it is. Finally, you get angry for no reason! 44. If there is a contradiction between husband and wife, women should not fight over a little trifle. In this case, there will only be more and more contradictions at home! 45, the family should talk more every day, don&;t play with their mobile phones and brush their videos as soon as they get home! 46, don&;t have a heart of comparison, always staring at other people&;s houses, cars, children, such a family life, too tired! 47. Don&;t quarrel while sleeping! 48, between husband and wife, respect each other&;s privacy, don&;t just turn over his mobile phone or diary! 49. Don&;t talk about the contradictions at home, especially women. It is easy to spread to the home and make the contradictions bigger! 50. Men can no longer earn money, and women should not scold their husbands in front of their in-laws. The consequences are terrible!


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