My first child is a boy, and my second child is just three months old. What can I say? I cried for two months, and then I got better. Although I told myself before I was born that it doesn&;t matter if I choose to have a second child, as long as I am healthy, it&;s still a little regrettable to learn that it is a boy. So I cried and cried for the first two months, crying and thinking again. I cried when I saw Tik Tok brushing my children. Just after the full moon, my parents quarreled. I went to stop the fight. I thought that I would quarrel with my husband in the future. No one stopped me from crying. I asked my husband to send flowers and shopping cards on my mother&;s birthday. I thought that no one would remember me crying on my birthday in the future. Hahaha, I wanted to cry in everything. It is estimated that there are some reasons for postpartum hormones. Now look at my little cute, ugly, ugly and happy. My current situation is actually not suitable for having a second child, because the mortgage is more than 9,000 yuan per month, and then it will cost a lot of money to hire a nanny. The pressure is relatively high. My father-in-law needs her mother-in-law to take care of her all the time, and we have to help. But my husband wanted us very much and gave birth. Fortunately, my husband is very powerful, and the boss is very attached to him. During my month, he did a good job in washing clothes, cooking moon meals and taking care of the baby, so he made do with it. I have a brother myself. I have a good relationship with my brother and sister-in-law, and often help each other. My brother&;s economy is better. I gave me a lot when I built the house. My children&;s clothes and sisters-in-law are almost covered. I often help them drive their children to and from school, take them to play and cook something delicious, so it&;s good to have a brother. However, I personally think that it is too difficult to raise a child if the financial strength does not allow or the elderly do not help.