First, the high-level skills of interpersonal relationships: enthusiasm and generosity, no questions asked! Second, many middle-aged women don&;t need men much, but middle-aged men can&;t do without women, as long as they are good enough for themselves, they don&;t care who she is! Third, don&;t feel sorry for others casually. Softness is a disease, and affection is fatal. Some people will really destroy your aura. Fourth, don&;t take advantage of it. There is a trap in the sky, either bait or trap. You take your interest and covet your principal. Fifth, borrowing money is risky, and investment needs to be cautious. These days, it is always standing and lending money and getting it back on your knees! 6. At any time, save your life first, then your wealth, and finally talk about your feelings. Only when you have the ability to make a comeback can you have the opportunity to mention others. Seven, don&;t mind your own business, do everything according to your ability, and don&;t let others&; troubles turn to trouble yourself. Eight, learn to be kind to yourself by leaving, leave all the circles that make you suppress your pain, and let those who are extremely uncomfortable go to a happy and pleasant environment. Nine, no one is your forever safe haven, only the money in your hand, the determination in your heart, your confidence and ability are your lifelong dependence. 10. You may not succeed, but you must grow up. Time will tell you that people who are slow to grow up are hit hard by life at some stage of their lives! 11. The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well. When you are getting better and better, you will look around others with an open and accepting attitude, and you will not be too harsh and more tolerant. 12. Buy what you like yourself. All the gifts in fate are marked in the dark, and you have to pay one price or another. 13. The essence of interpersonal communication is the exchange of interests. Only when the interests are equal enough can the long-term balance of relations be maintained. Fourteen, you can be kind, but don&;t always flaunt your kindness. Your kindness should have a sharp edge, and it is best to have clear boundaries. Otherwise, you will be a fish on someone else&;s chopping board. Fifteen, the biggest secret of adults is to learn to shut up and not tell anyone your secret. The beginning of destroying a relationship is intimacy and outspoken. Sixteen, don&;t entangle with rotten people too much, the best choice in life is to learn to give up at the right time. Seventeen, a mature and intelligent woman has long lost three things: outdated clothes, a sister who plays with her heart and a man who doesn&;t care about you. 18. The meaning of life is to choose. Just run forward hard and never look back frequently. Your soft heart and indecision will only hinder your progress and make others feel that you still have expectations for each other. This is simply a blasphemy against your own efforts and choices. Nineteen, don&;t care about the separation of a relationship, people are like this, even the best relationship will fade from thick to thin and then gradually go far, no one is no exception! Twenty, there is nothing wrong with not hurting others, at least to prove that you are still alive! Twenty-one, in this world, always put the protection of your own life safety and property safety in the first place, and then help others when you have the ability, never put the cart before the horse. Twenty-two, when people reach middle age, they often feel stressed, interpersonal relationships, money pressure, and parental support.The problems of the old and the children are puzzling, and the most unavoidable thing is the gradually dull relationship between husband and wife. Twenty-three, for the vast majority of people in life, they have not realized their childhood dreams, and life is often lost. It is true that people are unhappy, as if they have everything and nothing! Twenty-five, the first core of family relations is always the economy rather than the feelings. When entering marriage, we should have both feelings and bread. Twenty-six, loneliness is the normal state of life. It is extremely lucky to find a person who pampers you all your life. Of course, it is good! It doesn&;t matter if you don&;t, because most people won&;t love you because you are excellent! Twenty-seven, a person&;s pattern is the upper limit of your life, and people can never earn money outside their own pattern. Twenty-eight, life is only once, don&;t risk your life for just feelings! Twenty-nine, human nature is despicable, most afraid of seeing through, and we must have reservations about anyone&;s contribution. Paying too much will only increase the greed and deficiency of the other party. Thirty, as long as it is live high in my life, it really doesn&;t matter if others don&;t understand it. There is no need to explain it, and don&;t entangle too much with the bar essence. One more second is a waste of your time! Thirty-one, time is definitely the best medicine, which can cure all the pain in the world! Thanks for your support.