Psychologically, there is no pure friendship between men and women. It is human nature that opposites attract. There is no need to avoid it. The so-called confidante is just a cover-up of ambiguous expression. The final arrival is just for the sake of men and women. It&;s human nature to have feelings over time. A confidante, the reason for communication is nothing more than seeing the color and an ulterior motive. Every man wants to have a confidante, talk about everything, talk to each other and comfort his soul. Just like a distant tree, it always flourishes on the road of its own mind. When it is tired and lonely, it approach——. Many times, human beings will use a beautiful excuse to decorate their ulterior motives, which is nothing more than covering up an unspeakable conspiracy. Once enough paper is punctured, there is nowhere to hide what you know. Covering up and whitewashing have always been the best tricks of human beings, otherwise, like animals, we will come straight to the point. There are some unsightly things hidden in the depths of human nature. Once the right soil is available, it will grow wildly. Without the constraints of morality, faith, law and system, everyone is a devil. Freud said: it is our nature to think savagely, blindly and even contrary to morality in the subconscious; And the morality, ideals and noble souls we are proud of are actually just disguises to cover up these ideas. Of cours—— udumbara flower, a Buddhist flower that blooms once every three thousand years.