Every year, I collect good books to read this year in advance, and this year is no exception. So far, there are about 40 books. Why are you doing this? If you want to gain something from reading, the first step is to buy books that you really want to read and should read. What is the book you want to read and should read? Next, I will choose books from three directions: to build T-ability, to find books with my temper, to choose calligraphy according to my mood and time, and to help you choose books that are really suitable for you to read from a large number of books. Reading books that are suitable for you and books that are not suitable for you, the reading value produced is really different! Two years of personal practice has proved that having a &”;book list&”; that belongs to you will definitely help you find books that are suitable for you to read. This is a list of books purchased in 2020, which lists the titles, authors, publishers and remarks of books to be read. After reading, the reading status and rating will be updated. This year, I mobilized the resources of my circle of friends to help me land some books in 2021, which are still being continuously updated, as shown in the following figure: I didn&;t put them directly in the book list recommended by my friends, so I went to Douban and JD.COM to check. For example, Douban scored above 7 or 8, and some books were reviewed by Dangdang and JD.COM. Of course, this is not the most important reason for you to decide whether to read this book. After all, others said it was good. Choosing a secretary to live in is what you worry about. We have worries at every stage of our lives. Reading is not based on the number of readings, but on solving immediate problems. Maybe a book is nothing to others, but this book can solve your troubles and problems, so this book is a good book that benefits you a lot. So how do you choose the book that suits you? You can start from the following three aspects, and look at the picture below: Think about it, what do you usually worry about? Doing nothing is work, family, daily life, interpersonal communication, etc., which can&;t be separated from three points in essence, including professional skills, general skills and experience. Classical teach《拆掉思维里的墙》 called these three points T-ability model, so we can choose books to build our own core competence. What are professional skills? Take it as a livelihood skill, such as our job. Every profession has its own professional ability requirements, just as programmers should have programming ability and financial accounting ability. What is another general skill? It is a skill that everyone can learn together regardless of occupation, such as communication ability, time management ability, reading ability and writing ability. Empirical knowledge refers to life experience, pattern, cognition, wisdom and other aspects. For example, if you just work, don&;t understand interpersonal communication, have little work experience and have no experience in many things, and you don&;t know how to deal with it, you will feel less confident. We can learn from the experience of others and let us conceive a scene, so that we won&;t be in a hurry when we really meet it. These three just constitute our core competence structure. Professional skills are the support point of our T-ability. If a person doesn&;t have a skill,There is no core competitiveness, and you will always worry about being eliminated in the workplace or society; General skills belong to our additional attributes. If you have good communication skills in the workplace, high emotional intelligence, good PPT and high work efficiency, you will be more likely to stand out and be valued by leaders. The role of experience is even more common. Being well-informed and experienced will make you take fewer detours and develop more smoothly. If we want to choose a book that suits us, we must first know what kind of temper we are, and then look at what kind of temper reading is, which is not right for us. How to test your temper? DISC is a common personality test tool. In the 1920s, American psychologist William Moreton maston created a theory. He adopted four factors that he thought were typical personality traits, namely Dominance-, Influence-, steadiness and Compliance-. DISC, on th《正常人的情绪》 that Dr. maston put forward the DISC evaluation and theoretical explanation. You can see what kind of temper you belong to by comparing the above picture. Let&;s see what temper reading is. How do you correspond to books? The book is also divided into four kinds of personality: high D-type characteristics: generally all sides are on the bright side, each section begins with a simple and crisp case, then analyzes the reasons with little space, quickly throws out the essential reasons, and finally gives you a solution. Just do it in step 123, which is straightforward. Such as 《高分阅读法》, 《精进写作》 and 《认知觉醒》. Referred to as &”;quick results&”;. High I-type characteristics: generally, it is a color design, and there are many pictures on the inner page. Even without pictures, the content can make you read more and more exciting, and you can&;t stop. Can move you and give you energy, including some classic series. Such as 《视觉笔记7堂客》 and 《幸运手帐》. Short for &”;very interesting type&”;. High S-type characteristics: It&;s a little boring to read, but everything written is useful, such as some books on emotional management and psychology. In addition, there are some thought-provoking literary works, such as 《喜宝》 and 《人生海海》. Referred to as &”;slow type&”;. High C-type characteristics: most of them are professional brain-burning books, and there is no way to read them quickly, so we can only experience them slowly and carefully analyze the author&;s writing ideas and examples. Referred to as &”;cautious and thorough&”;. Such as 《心》 in kazuo inamori, 《人生的智慧》 in Schop《人性的弱点》 in Carnegie. I belong to the character of partial D-type and I-type, so I usually like to read some books that give quick results and are very interesting, so I am more interested in my temper and easier to read. If you can&;t read the book, you can see if this book is bad for you. often listen toSome people say that reading is really good, but they don&;t know how to choose books when they want to read. I bought a book according to someone else&;s list, only to find that I couldn&;t read it at all; Then I gnashed my teeth and insisted on reading it. I found that it took too much time. What should I do about dating and falling in love? I finally couldn&;t remember it after reading it. I don&;t know how to apply it by rote, as if nothing has changed ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………… ! In fact, there is a doorway to reading, not to say that you want to read that book. You should not only combine your own ability, your temper and personality, but also combine your time, energy and mood to read the corresponding books. For example, if you work overtime late today, you are already very tired, come home late, and it&;s close to going to bed. You still want to read some books, and as a result, you still read books that need to be experienced slowly and burn your brain professionally. Didn&;t you say that your forehead was crowded by the door? Dedicated to destroying the reading interest that you have built up by your own efforts? Obviously, I don&;t have enough energy and time at this time. If I want to read a book, I can read a book that is angry with myself and feel better. If today&;s work is easy and you are energetic when you go home, but the baby at home is quarreling with you and wants you to accompany you, but you don&;t have much time for yourself, you can choose the kind of book that &”;gives the results quickly&”;, and you can know what you said and what you need to do after reading a few pages. The time for reading is short, but you gain a lot. If today&;s work is relaxed, and the baby who comes home is obedient, my God, I finally have energy and time today, so make a cup of tea, listen to light music, sit at the table, read the &”;cautious and careful&”; books, read the classics and enjoy your reading time. It&;s absolutely wonderful. If today&;s mood is not too beautiful, the children see that you are unhappy and don&;t bother you, and there is plenty of time, that is, the mood is average, then you can read the &”;slow&”; books, such as emotional books, which may not necessarily solve your troubles. You see, sometimes, maybe it&;s not that you are not interested in reading, or that books are not suitable. It&;s that you don&;t read it at the right time. Read it at another time. The value that a book may bring to you may be a world of difference. Now that you know how to choose the right books, go and prepare your own book list for 2021.