Mentality and quality to make decisions. Before getting married, I knew that the other person&;s pension was less than 3,000, which means that this person needs his wife instead of money, and the other person knows that the other person&;s pension is too much to spend before following up. If he wants to control the other person&;s pension in order to enjoy it after marriage, there will definitely be contradictions. If both sides are running for the old age, then it will be a good combination for the two old people to establish feelings, be considerate of each other, take care of each other and have a correct attitude. Cherish and wish you happiness!