Whether it&;s cremation or burial after cremation, it&;s actually a kind of missing for the dead. The deceased and the living are both lineal relatives. After living together for decades, there is an emotion that is hard to give up. They will definitely choose a funeral that they can accept as a grief and remembrance for the deceased. In fact, for the deceased, his life and feelings are over. The body is just an object. You don&;t know what to do with him. Everything is arranged by the living. How to choose a funeral that you can accept is influenced by customs, and there is nothing right or wrong in itself. The reason why the country calls for cremation is based on the national conditions, so that the dead can&;t occupy the land of the living, so as to make more land to feed the living. From the point of view of the country, it is reasonable and reasonable, and our personal wishes should be subject to the arrangement of the country. At present, there is no objection to having one&;s own land in rural areas and burying it on one&;s own land, which is also accepted by the public and is possible. Urban residents have no land of their own, so they can only choose the cemetery as a single burial in the north. Now it is also accepted by the public, and this is also possible. In short, it is good to accept the funeral as long as it does not violate the secular concept. No matter what we choose, as long as we can express our feelings and nostalgia for the deceased, it is ok.