A 38-year-old man, dating a divorced woman, was reminded by a friend that this woman divorced her ex-husband less than a year after marriage. It is said that she was too lazy. &”;The man smiled and said,&”; It&;s okay for women to be lazy. &”; But who would have thought that after seven years of marriage, this day, the woman asked him to hold a quilt and go out to dry, but he drove his wife back to her family. A 38-year-old man remarried for 7 years, and his wife gave birth to a son. He didn&;t go shopping or dress up at ordinary times, and even refused to buy clothes. He still earned 1000 yuan every month. Who would have thought that this day, the woman asked her husband to take the quilt outside to dry it, and as a result, he drove her back to her mother&;s house. The man said, She is the laziest woman I have ever seen! Seven years ago, 28-year-old Achen ended her first marriage. She had been married to her ex-husband for less than a year. Because her ex-husband couldn&;t stand her living habits, they had a big fight during her pregnancy, and Achen went back to her mother&;s house willfully. Originally, she thought that her ex-husband would admit his mistake and take her back, but who wanted to wait was a divorce agreement. A Chen is also a strong-willed and face-saving woman. She agreed without saying anything, and was raised by her parents after giving birth. Later, someone introduced her to a wussy, who was several years older than her, and she was not good-looking. In terms of looks, the two were very mismatched. I fell in love with Achen at first sight. People familiar with the matter reminded him that Achen&;s last marriage was because she was too lazy, and her ex-husband divorced her. I hope he will consider it clearly. At that time, he took care of so much and said, &”;It&;s not a big problem for women to be lazy, as long as I am at home.&”; Chen didn&;t want to marry at first, but his parents tried their best to persuade people to be honest. Moreover, he has no children yet, and his family is about to be demolished. When the time comes, he will have food and clothing, and he will live a better life after marrying. In this way, Chen reluctantly got a marriage certificate. In the early days of her marriage, she was considerate to Chen. Although she did nothing every day, she was still very happy to take care of her. For example, Chen never washed clothes or cooked, and even didn&;t bother to sweep the ground. Her biggest hobby every day was lying in bed playing with her mobile phone. This kind of life lasted for three months, and he began to have ideas in his heart. He could only keep comforting himself. His wife was just not mature enough. After giving birth to a child, he would definitely know how to take care of people when he became a mother. It&;s a pity that his idea is too naive. After Achen gave birth to the baby, he still hasn&;t changed anything before. During confinement, his son gave it to his mother-in-law. He didn&;t even give his son milk for long, so he was asked to drink milk powder and the baby&;s diapers, and her mother-in-law was also responsible for washing them. After a long time, my mother-in-law has an idea in her heart. She has a lot of things to do every day, and she has to grow vegetables outside. This daughter-in-law is like a decoration, and she is not helpful at all. How can this be justified? Mother-in-law swallowed her anger. Later, her mother-in-law simply ignored it. What should she do? As a result, A Chen&;s clothes piled up in a lot and didn&;t move. Her mother-in-law was a diligent and hygienic person, so she couldn&;t stand it and had to wash it herself. With a straight face, he said to Chen, &”;If you don&;t do anything at home all day, why do you even need my mother to help you wash your own clothes?&”; Morning disapprovingly said:&”;I didn&;t ask her to wash it, but she had to come and help.&”; Your clothes are piled up like mountains, some of them are moldy, and you turn a blind eye, just waiting for my mother to help you wash them. Chen argued: &”;I just forgot, are you going online with me for such a small matter?&”; What can I do if she wants to wash it? &”; The two men were red-faced with each other, and Achen cried that she was working outside all day, didn&;t care about her at all, and didn&;t take her seriously at all. The more you listen to it, the more angry you get. I give you 2000 yuan pocket money every day. What else do you want me to do to you? Since you married me, I haven&;t asked you to do anything, treating you like a baby. I don&;t want you to go out to work. At least you have to take good care of your children and clean up your home. Ah Chen was extremely wronged. After this quarrel, Ah Chen still went her own way, and in a blink of an eye they were married for seven years. On this day, it was sunny outside, and Chen asked him to take the quilt out to bask in it. Who thought, suddenly, he gave Chen a slap in the face, and they wrestled together, and his ear was bitten by Chen, and Chen&;s arm was bruised by him. Finally, she went into the kitchen and took out a knife. Achen was so scared that she hurried back to her mother&;s house with her daughter who was born with her ex-husband, and never dared to come back from then on. After half a year, I didn&;t mean to pick her up, and even asked for a divorce. Why on earth did it become like this? That&;s because Chen is getting lazier and lazier, which makes him unbearable. Chen has two tablets and three mobile phones. She spends most of her time playing games in bed from morning till night. She doesn&;t cook or wash clothes, and her mother-in-law takes the meal to bed. Because she lives on the second floor, it&;s inconvenient to go to the toilet. She puts a toilet directly under the bed, and the toilet is solved in the room, and she won&;t pour it out in time. I have helped her pour it many times, and in the end she has become accustomed to it. If she doesn&;t pour it for a few days, even if the room stinks, she still confidently said, &”;I am making money, so don&;t bother me.&”; Her so-called making money, playing games from morning till night every day, earns about 1000 yuan in a month. She doesn&;t go out, doesn&;t go shopping, doesn&;t like dressing up, and doesn&;t have any friends at ordinary times. All her energy is spent on these mobile phones. Chen has an attitude of nothing to do with everything at home. My father-in-law bought them a second-hand house and asked Chen to clean it because he had to go to work. As a result, she refused to do such a small thing and said, &”;I don&;t have time, so don&;t look for me.&”; He didn&;t force it. Many times he tolerated his wife&;s willfulness, but it would break out one day if he endured it for a long time. And holding the quilt is the fuse. He can accept being lazy and being so unhygienic, which is the most intolerable thing for him. He regrets that he didn&;t listen to his friends&; advice, and now he just wants to end such a marriage as soon as possible. Ah Chen went back to her mother&;s house for so long, but she didn&;t care. Ah Chen called the TV station for help. Ah Chen said that she didn&;t smoke or drink, didn&;t go shopping at ordinary times, and didn&;t spend money indiscriminately. She just made money at home all day, but she was abused by her husband. She didn&;t even apologize and had to divorce. She felt very wronged.When she came to the door with a reporter to theorize, she was so excited that she listed all Achen&;s actions one by one that others couldn&;t believe it. Chen said that she was angry because her husband&;s family didn&;t respect her at all. They moved 3.3 million yuan, and no one told her. Later, she accidentally saw it on the bulletin board in the village. Obviously, they just wanted to hide it from her. My father-in-law was furious. Isn&;t this a thing of the past? At that time, the head fee was 160 thousand per person, and my grandson&;s money was also given to you, giving you a total of 320 thousand. What else do you want? Chen said that she is the mistress of this family, and she should take care of the rest of the money. My father-in-law sneered, if you can&;t even manage yourself well, how can you manage a family? Besides, the money has nothing to do with you, it&;s shared by our old house, and we built the house before you got married. My father-in-law said that although there was no money to give them, they took out more than one million yuan to help them buy a house, and they all did this. What else? I didn&;t expect Chen not only to be ungrateful, but also to think that her father-in-law didn&;t give enough. After Chen got married, she also brought her ex-husband&;s child to the Liu family. The kind old man treated the child as his own. Chen was not qualified as a wife, mother or daughter-in-law. The old man said that they only had one son. If the daughter-in-law lived wholeheartedly and was a good woman, they would consider letting her take charge. After all, they were old, and this family would be handed over to them sooner or later. However, Achen&;s various behaviors made the two old people extremely chilling and worried about the future of their sons and grandchildren. If Chen doesn&;t correct it, such a daughter-in-law would rather not. In fact, Achen&;s laziness is well known to her parents. According to her father, Achen is the third child. Since she was a child, her mother pampered her and didn&;t let her do any work, which led her to be willful and lead a life of reaching out with clothes and making ends meet. In fact, her mother has repeatedly persuaded her to be diligent. After all, she is almost 40 years old. Mother said that Chen was not bad-hearted, but too childish, immature and ignorant of the world. I hope the Liu family can give her another chance to turn over a new leaf. The two sides considered the children, and there was no major contradiction in principle. Finally, they came to the community mediation together. The mediator put forward several requirements for both sides: I hope Achen can do these four things well in the future: First, as a mother, it is her job to take care of the children and wash and cook for them. Second: take care of the hygiene at home every day and keep it clean and tidy. Third, spend more time with your children, don&;t play with your mobile phone every day, and set up a correct value for your children. Fourth: Do a good job as a wife, talk to her husband and do housework at home. People are mutual, it takes two to clap hands, and there are still some things to be improved. For example, he used to constantly criticize, yell at his wife, and sometimes start work. These habits are not good. When the wife has made a little progress, she should say a few more words of praise, show more concern and consideration to her, be a good man if she has given living expenses, and be more patient and tolerant if her wife has done something wrong. How lazy can a person be? individualSome people think that many people&;s &”;laziness&”; is actually used by their families. The reason why they don&;t want to do what they can is to expect others to do it. I think many people may, like this mother-in-law and husband, help because they don&;t like it. Over time, these things have become theirs. &”;Laziness&”; means that people are used to relying on others, without self-control and binding force, and everyone yearns for a life where clothes make ends meet. But most people know that this kind of life is based on the hard work of their families. Everyone is a member of the family. If you want to run a good home, you must work together and try not to bother others if you can do things well by yourself. As a woman, it is the most basic thing to keep your home clean and tidy. It is human nature to hate work and relax. Just because it is human nature, people need to push themselves, and they become lazy when they are idle, and they become sick when they are lazy.