My husband and wife are both retired, and the pension is 13,500 yuan per month. Both daughters have graduated from graduate school and worked for many years. Under normal circumstances, our pension is for our own use. We save a little every month and don&;t give it to our children, because young people don&;t spend a lot of money, and they are optimistic about what to buy. Only when they buy a house and a car, they will give them some in the name of Hershey, and there is the problem of their grandchildren giving lucky money for their birthdays and Spring Festival, and then their continuing education. I also give them a bonus of more than 100,000 yuan when studying for on-the-job doctoral students, regardless of other things. Young people put them under a little pressure, even if they take a loan, they can&;t give it. That&;s not love, but harm, which is easy to cause dependence. No matter how rich the elderly are, they can&;t raise their children for life. The children who are gnawing at the old will never grow up, and the children of the poor will take care of themselves early. This is my personal view and practice.