I was born at the age of 40, and I was the first child. Let me tell you my experience. I belong to late marriage and late childbirth. I was born in 1978 and my husband was born in 1968. This is how our two super-old friends are combined. We met in 2016 and found pregnant in November 2017. We had planned to have children after playing for one year, so it was an accident that we didn&;t have any pregnancy. After having a child, I hesitate again, because I just finished myomectomy in August 2016, and my laparotomy is not minimally invasive. At that time, the doctor advised me to get pregnant after two years, saying that I would wait until the wound healed completely. But now I have it, and my husband really wants it. So we found an expert to consult, and the answer was that we can observe while pregnant, because my fibroids grow in the serosa layer and the inner wall of the uterus is intact. Even if there is an accident, it is ok to take it out first. So I began to have a baby with peace of mind, and my morning sickness reaction was relatively slow, which didn&;t make me too uncomfortable in general. After the first three months of pregnancy, my husband and I needed to go to Japan on business because of our work. Originally, I was not going to go, thinking that I was an old man and should rest at home. But both my husband and my parents advised me to stay at home, so it&;s better to go out for a walk, and then I won&;t have time to go out to play after the baby is born. I think so, so I went to Japan with my husband in February 2017. I went through all kinds of land, sea and air transportation along the way. Fortunately, I arrived in Yokohama, Japan on a snowy afternoon without any discomfort. When I arrived in Japan, I was careful at first, drinking hot water every day, but it didn&;t take long for me to take the trouble to drink ice water. Maybe I&;m pregnant with a boy, I&;m in a state of body heat every day, and I always want to drink ice water, so I even eat ice cream, which scares my husband. Every day, we have an argument because of this. Fortunately, I live a leisurely life every day. I just stroll around and eat, sleep when I am sleepy and tired, and feel happy in short. After returning to China, we had a check-up on time. I was old and my first child, so I had to have an amniocentesis. When it comes to amniocentesis, there is nothing to be afraid of, just like an injection, which is more painful than an injection, and the time is not long, but the result is more worrying, for fear of any accident. Fortunately, my husband has a good attitude and says that I look young and there will be no problem. I have a big heart, and when others praise me, I will fart. The results of the prenatal examination are also good. I have no job since the fourth month of pregnancy, and I am at home waiting for labor. But where can I sit and live? I have to drive out for a walk with a big belly, so I don&;t have to worry about my husband. Soon the expected date of delivery arrived, and I gave birth to a healthy baby naturally, and our whole family was extremely happy. I have a new moon in the second month and take care of it with my parents. After coming out for the second month, I rested for half a year and took care of my baby while breastfeeding. My parents are old, but they are in good health. They usually play table tennis every day. Usually, the nanny and I take care of the baby. Every weekend, we will let my parents go back to rest and don&;t want them to work too hard. Soon the child will be over one year old, and our family will go out together.Travel, once a year. My parents can&;t think about it for a day without seeing the baby, so we basically live together. Now that the child is two and a half years old, we can take care of ourselves instead of babysitting. I will take the initiative to take care of my children when I have nothing to do, so that my parents can have more rest. Fortunately, my work flexibility is relatively large, so that our whole family is healthy and happy at present. Let&;s talk about the future later. I think it&;s ok to live in the present. What I need to do now is to cultivate good habits and psychology for my children and keep my parents and husband healthy. It is true that I get married and have children late and my husband is old, so I accept it. There is no need to struggle, and we often see others look at us with strange eyes, thinking that our family is all old people, but so what? We can live our own lives without caring about other people&;s eyes. I think 40 and 50 are great ages, so do it boldly!