In high school, a math teacher and class teacher with both talents and looks cleverly escaped the chase of Ban Hua, but after eight years, she married Ban Hua, winning the happiness of her family, the respect of her students and the success of her career. The love of youth entered the second year of high school, and the classes were re-divided according to the rules of choosing arts and sciences. At that time, everyone was rushing to enter the university, eager to meet excellent and experienced teachers. When we learned that a fledgling college student was our head teacher, everyone was a little disappointed and even wanted to invite him to make a scene in the principal&;s office. On the first class of school, I was surprised to find that the head teacher turned out to be my cousin, so don&;t mention the joy. My heart was full of superiority. Maybe I should take advantage in arranging seats and selecting class Committee cadres. If it weren&;t for class, I would probably jump up and hang his arm for a few laps. My cousin inherited my uncle&;s high-quality genes. He is a tall man of 1.8 meters, tall and straight, with a chiseled face and big eyes. He is called a &”;Chinese-style&”; handsome guy. My cousin, after all, was admitted to Normal University with the result of being the top science scholar in the city, and was assigned to a key middle school in the city as high flyers of Normal University. Kan Kan&;s eloquence, humorous words and his childlike demeanor made those who had intended to coax him off the stage respect him, taking notes in a polite way and answering every question seriously. I proudly glanced around to my sides, which startled me: my girl classmates glared at him with their eyes shining. I glanced at my deskmate Meng Di again, but I was so absorbed that my saliva overflowed from the open mouth. She has always been a cocky class flower and school flower, and nobody is in her eyes. In class, she almost never does anything except fiddling with her little hair and her painted nails, let alone taking notes in class. Every exam, except the bottom or the bottom. In her words, with her natural beauty embryo, marry a good family, why worry about dressing and eating? Learning is naturally not the object of her attention. I touched her gently with my arm, and she gave me a serious look: &”;Listen!&”; I was puzzled: did the sun come out in the west? Since then, Meng Di seems to be a different person. He listens carefully in math class and answers questions actively in class. There are always so many questions after class, and he spends 80% of his spare time discussing them with his math teacher. She used to doze off in math class, but she turned out to be an active member in the class. She didn&;t even do her homework before, but she took the initiative to study, which really made me look at her. Cousin often praises Meng Di&;s progress and his studious progress in class. Isn&;t this a big contrast? Where on earth did this come from? Sitting at the same table with her all day, I really don&;t understand what&;s going on. That weekend was my cousin&;s birthday. My uncle, aunt and grandmother all came to celebrate my cousin&;s birthday. I told Meng Di about going to the family dinner, and she actually asked to attend my cousin&;s birthday dinner with me. I didn&;t think much about it. Anyway, she is also my good friend. Besides, my cousin is also her teacher, so she readily agreed to her request. On her birthday, she gave her cousin a gift.Beautiful gift box. Out of curiosity, I can&;t wait to help my cousin open the box and see what&;s inside. But Meng Di held my hand firmly and refused to let me open it anyway, then attached it to my ear and whispered, &”;Let the birthday boy open it himself after I leave.&”; So mysterious? But also aroused my curiosity. After dinner, as soon as she left, I urged my cousin to open it and have a look. In case it was delicious, I had to eat it. As soon as the beautifully packaged box was opened, a bunch of beautiful wind chimes were revealed inside. When the wind chimes were lifted, there was a paper crane folded beautifully: Letter? Do students need to hide so deeply when writing letters to their teachers? Cousin opened the letter carefully, and his face slowly became dignified: &”;Second sister, did she usually tell you about her thoughts?&”; My cousin handed me the letter. &”;You know what to do.&”; I just saw the first two lines and quickly returned them to my cousin: it&;s disgusting. I&;ve never seen such a deeply affectionate love letter. It turns out that the power source of her hard study of mathematics is here, and she is trying to attract the attention and goodwill of her math teacher. I don&;t know how to deal with it, I can only pretend that I don&;t know anything. In the second week of the vivid off-campus &”;classroom&”;, Meng Di always secretly glanced at me, so timidly, I didn&;t know what she was afraid of or worried about. I don&;t know how my cousin will handle this matter. According to the routine practice, the teacher will definitely talk to the students and persuade her to focus on her studies and persuade her to break the idea of puppy love or even teacher-student love; Or give the love letter to her parents and let them handle it. My cousin, however, made no movement at all. As always, she took classes calmly and treated every classmate calmly, including Meng Di. He didn&;t talk to Meng Di, nor did anyone else talk to Meng Di about it, so two weeks passed quietly. I don&;t want to get involved, and I don&;t know how to get involved in their affairs, just as nothing happened. Meng Di couldn&;t bear it any longer, and dragged me to the secluded grove of the school: &”;Didn&;t your brother open the gift I sent?&”; I didn&;t answer, so I slapped my arm: &”;So many mosquitoes, why did you drag me here?&”; I can&;t stand it, let&;s go back to the classroom. &”; Meng Di had to follow back to the classroom, always looking for opportunities to inquire about the whereabouts of this love letter, and I always looked for opportunities and excuses to avoid it. Meng Di began to be anxious, disappointed and even angry, and ly began not to listen to math classes, not to do math homework, and even to be late for class. I know in my heart that she is trying to attract the teacher&;s attention with another extreme, and I hope the teacher can talk to her. However, things did not develop in the direction she expected. My cousin didn&;t talk to her or criticize her. It&;s weekend again. On Saturday morning, Aunt Li, a psychological teacher in the school clinic, invited several students who had lived in the school for a long time to go out for a picnic, and went to the lake not far from the school, where the scenery is good and there is water and firewood, which is an ideal place for frequent picnics. &”;Miss Li, we didn&;t inform us in advance to make preparations. What should we take for a picnic?&”; Meng Di was in a bad mood and asked impatiently. &”;Don&;t worry, you don&;t need to prepare anything, just come with me!&”; Miss Li is full of confidence. It seems that she has already decided that we should go with her. Join togetherBesides our students who are far away from home, there are more than 10 young teachers who are not married, such as my cousin. A group of people noisily cooked a sumptuous lunch. After the meal, it is reasonable to say that it should be over and back to school. But Mr. Li was still wanting more, but he proposed to play for an afternoon. Teacher Li suggested that everyone play games. She seems to have prepared a class in advance, first organized a group to guess riddles, and then performed a program if she lost, and the atmosphere suddenly became lively. The second game is a debate contest, the theme of which is &”;Love and the right match&”;. The positive view is that &”;Love should pay attention to the right match&”;, and everyone must be a member of one group and take sides freely. My cousin was the first to choose the square, and Meng Di angrily chose the opposite side. She threatened to argue the square for nothing and take the initiative to beg for mercy. Miss Li&;s last choice, I didn&;t expect her to stand in the positive camp. The pros and cons have had several rounds, and no one has won, and no one will admit defeat. In the final summing-up stage, Meng Di pointedly pointed out the other side: adhering to the right view is a feudal and old ethical concept and a backward concept of wealth supremacy, which should be resolutely opposed and eliminated! Cousin came forward to sum up: the right people in the new era should have the same educational background, knowledge, cultural accomplishment, like-minded, common career pursuit, standing at the same starting line, fighting for the same goal, resonating with the same frequency, having deep and lasting feelings and a solid foundation of marriage. Teacher Li came forward to add that it is not advisable to directly attack the love between teachers and students. It is a typical case that the door is not right. Students and teachers are not on the same channel in terms of identity, status, level of knowledge, occupation and social responsibility. It is one-sided and superficial to regard it as &”;love&”; based on superficial goodwill and worship. Students&; minds are still immature, and their understanding of love is hazy and vague; With the growth of age, continuous growth and maturity, rich knowledge and broadened horizons, the concept will also change. Most people will think that the initial worship is not love and will give up. From a realistic point of view, there are infinite possibilities for students&; future development. If they are admitted to a good university or even pursue a higher degree, they will not choose to return to these small cities to develop in big cities. If you don&;t go to college, go back to the countryside or go out to work, as a teacher with a fixed job, you will feel unequal. In short, this kind of emotion without a solid foundation is unreliable, and there is no need to waste a lot of time in the best youth. A stone stirs up a thousand waves. Miss Li deserves to be a psychological counseling teacher. She is reasonable in analyzing psychology, emotion and reality, and leads everyone to the topic of &”;teacher-student love&”; at once. Although Meng Di tried his best to defend the view that &”;true love needs no additional conditions&”; and &”;the pure emotion of teacher-student love should be supported&”;, he was defeated by the outnumbered, and everyone agreed that &”;teacher-student love&”; is a typical &”;door is not right&”;, which has no foundation for survival, and can&;t bloom flowers, let alone bear fruit. The picnic made everyone have a good time. The debate was just a game, and no one took it seriously except Meng Di.In a bad mood, I can&;t see a smile on my face. I really can&;t read how many faces Meng Di has. It&;s changing rapidly. She changed her old coquetry and playfulness, stopped curling her hair and painting her nails, and was the first to enter the classroom every morning, reading aloud by herself like no one&;s watching. The last one to leave the classroom after self-study in the evening, never go to bed until the lights go out, always holding a book or a small notebook in his hand. After a semester, Meng Di&;s grades are rising, whether in the monthly exam or in the mid-term and final exams. Every time she rises by 3 to 5 places, she is in the top 20 of her class. If this continues, will she be in the &”;top 50&”; of 10 classes in the whole grade? &”;Who are you fighting with?&”; Look at the way she is always twisting, I still can&;t help asking. &”;Hum, I just want to see who is wrong with whom! I want to see who is falling behind who! &”; Meng Di said angrily, it seems that there is a nameless fire hidden in my heart and there is nowhere to vent it. It is full of the spirit of &”;revenge for a gentleman is not too late for ten years&”;, and I don&;t know when this revenge flame will burn my cousin. Two years passed quickly, and everything pays off. Meng Di was admitted to the Normal University where my cousin had studied with the top 20 grades in our school. Meng Di was absent from the party after the graduation ceremony of high school, and she didn&;t attend the reunion of freshmen, sophomores and juniors. In the summer vacation of the year when I graduated from college, Meng Di came, which brought amazing news to my former classmates: she had been admitted to the university where she was studying as a master&;s student. At the party that day, Meng Di, who was born with beauty, became more mature and noble after being nurtured by university culture. Catalyzed by alcohol, she walked up to my cousin and held a cup: &”;Dear teacher, am I the right person with you today?&”; Cousin is a little embarrassed: &”;I can&;t catch up now, I am ashamed, how can I talk about it?&”; Meng Di is full of expectation: &”;You can do it! I believe you can! &”; Although my cousin, who is well-versed in melon, has both talent and appearance and a fruitful career, her emotional problems are not satisfactory. Since joining the work, there has been a queue for blind date, but it is not satisfactory. Either my cousin is right in the eye and my aunt is not satisfied; Either my aunt took a fancy to it and asked for help, but my cousin didn&;t get it right. If so, my cousin is an 8-year-old, and she hasn&;t really been in love once. My cousin asked me what Meng Di&;s sentence &”;I believe you can&”; meant, which made me laugh and cry: &”;So complicated math problems can be solved, will this problem bother you?&”; &”;Then what should I do?&”; Cousin suddenly had zero IQ. &”;You are not suitable, right? Catch up! &”; &”;Don&;t you understand? Isn&;t that a lesson in design? &”; A man of science and technology is a man of science and technology. There is always a reason why he hasn&;t been in love for so many years. &”;Without your suitable theory, would Meng Di be today? Others are practicing, why don&;t you practice? &”; My cousin woke up like a dream and resumed his life of studying hard. In the second year, my cousin was admitted to the graduate school of his alma mater, and he was paid to study full-time. The conditions were naturally much better than those of Meng Di. When I met an old friend in a foreign land, Meng Di became the senior of the former teacher, and the two became mutual help.Friends who help each other The speed is also super fast. After one year, my cousin came back with Meng Di to announce her marriage. Their love speech at the wedding is really worth pondering. Cousin said: I have been tempted to receive her first love letter. But she is a student, and I am a teacher. It is not the season for flowers to bloom. The flowers will not only be fragrant, but also wither. If I accept it, it will be a destruction to her life; I refuse. I don&;t know what will happen if her self-esteem is frustrated. Therefore, I neither agreed nor refused, leaving room for future development. Meng Di said: I really didn&;t know what love was when I was young. The worship in the budding period of youth was not true love, and it was that off-campus debate that gave me a clear understanding. But I really can&;t leave this love for him, and I am determined to work hard to get this love in the future, and feel the new connotation of &”;being suitable for the family&”; with practical actions. Flowers are the most beautiful when they bloom in their own season, and the best ending is when the melons are ripe. Summarize the teacher, preach and teach to solve doubts. When people are young in chaos, they can grow up healthily with the guidance of good teachers; If you are misled by mediocrity, you will inevitably ruin your life. Although the female students in senior high school have a certain ability to distinguish, they are not deeply involved in the world, and their understanding of life and problems is still superficial. Their emotional world is mostly emotional and lacks rational thinking. If handled simply and rudely, it will affect not only academic problems, but also their outlook on life and values, and even their future and destiny. If you simply refuse, or the old-fashioned &”;what is learning-oriented&”; sermon, you can&;t let her really understand the noble purity of love and the responsibilities and consequences she has to bear, and you can&;t let her grow up quickly. If a girl with strong self-esteem and poor endurance, she may give up on herself and even do incredible stupid things, resulting in irreparable consequences. If parents are informed, will their parents&; education cause harm to students? What was originally the most secret thing in her heart was publicized by her favorite people, and even caused a storm in the city. The psychological damage to the students may affect her for a lifetime, and she may hate such a teacher for a lifetime. Of course, you can&;t choose to accept it. Otherwise, it will not only affect students&; learning and growth, but also affect teachers&; career. Therefore, as a teacher, &”;teaching&”; should focus on methods and art, and cannot be simplified.