[1] If you live in the countryside, you&;d better have a son. [2] If you want a stable marriage, men don&;t look for three, and women don&;t want three. [3] When a son gets married, parents should stop being the master, or they may be driven out of the house. [4] As a man, don&;t let your daughter-in-law play mahjong alone, for fear that it will be too late to regret it! [5] When a husband and wife quarrel, don&;t tell their parents, so as not to let the contradiction between a small family escalate into the contradiction between two people. [6] Daughter-in-law is strong, so it is better for in-laws to live separately from her, which can avoid many unnecessary contradictions. [7] Between husband and wife, no matter how big the contradiction is, don&;t sleep in separate beds, let alone live apart, otherwise the marriage will be difficult to protect. [8] With a high pension, children tend to be filial to their parents, and families tend to be more harmonious. [9] Don&;t persuade students to have more children. It is a matter for the young couple. If the in-laws talk too much, it will increase contradictions. [10] Don&;t persuade them to leave. No matter how big the contradiction between the young couple is, the in-laws should not persuade their sons to divorce. Once they make up one day, it will be bad for them. [11] Brothers and sisters, don&;t do business in partnership, for fear that if the business is not completed, the relationship will be broken. [12] When a husband and wife quarrel, don&;t talk about &”;divorce&”;, let alone &”;ex&”;, otherwise the marriage will be red. [13] Doing housework is by no means a woman&;s patent, and men should also take the initiative to undertake it. [14] If you have a daughter at home, you&;d better not marry far away, otherwise it will be difficult to meet once a year. [15] In-laws should treat their daughters-in-law as family members and their sons as outsiders, so that family relations will be harmonious. [16] When the grandson made a mistake and was criticized by his daughter-in-law, his parents-in-law should not intervene because of his distress, but should respect the education of the young couple. [17] As a daughter-in-law, don&;t treat your mother-in-law as your own mother. Only as a relative can the relationship be harmonious. [18] No one can be in charge of major family matters, but the whole family must sit down and discuss them. [19] Don&;t tell your child about family property, for fear that your child will be old and even more afraid that your child will steal it. [20] Children&;s marriage, if parents resolutely oppose it, then don&;t insist on it, most of them will not be happy, and you should trust the eyes of people who have experienced it. [21] A woman can be strong when she is away from home, but when she comes home, she will be gentle, otherwise there will be conflicts, and so will men. [22] Don&;t stop fighting. If the young couple quarrel, their parents-in-law should not persuade them. If people are angry, it will be useless to persuade them, but it will help them. [23] When a man borrows money, he must tell a woman that he can&;t keep silent, otherwise it will lead to family conflicts. [24] Parents should do their best to help their children when they are in difficulties, so that they will not complain. [25] If you are dissatisfied with the other party, you must see through it and never say it directly, otherwise it will be detrimental to family unity. [26] No, as long as one of the family members is infected, then the family will be basically destroyed. [27] When eating at home, don&;t bow your heads and play with your mobile phones, otherwise it will be the same as a restaurant. [28] As parents, we should not be partial to one child, otherwise it will cause dissatisfaction among other children and even fight. [29] If a woman is in charge of money, she should not quietly support her family. Once she is found, even if she doesn&;t say it on the surface, she will be guarded everywhere in private. [30] Children should not complain if they are poor.Because complaining is a manifestation, it will only make this family poorer and poorer, and we must change it by our own ability. [31] If the in-laws are present, the daughter-in-law should not scold the man, otherwise it is scolding the in-laws. [32] Parents-in-law, when they come home as guests, men can&;t tell on women, otherwise they are criticizing their parents-in-law for not educating their daughters well. [33] As a man, you should learn to hide it from both sides, not from both sides. If it is the other way around, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get worse and worse. [34] Children&;s abilities often affect parents&; social circles. The more promising their children are, the wider their parents&; contacts tend to be. [35] The ability of parents often determines the lower limit of children&;s life. The more capable parents are, the better their children&;s living conditions will be in the future. Brothers and sisters, though closely related, cannot criticize their children, let alone educate them. [37] Family members should be thrifty and not extravagant. Only when everyone saves money can families gather big money. [38] Parents&; grievances, children don&;t &”;inherit&”;, when is the revenge? [39] As a child, don&;t mention other people&;s parents in front of their parents; As parents, don&;t mention other people&;s children in front of their children. [40] In-laws take care of their children, and their daughters-in-law should not point fingers at them, let alone criticize them face to face, otherwise it will chill the hearts of the elderly. [41] When children choose a spouse, it is best to be suitable for each other. When two equal people get along, the marriage is the most stable. [42] Brothers and sisters, once married, should keep their distance from others, even if they borrow 1 yuan, they should also pay it back. [43] Brothers and sisters, don&;t compare with each other. Comparing with others will only increase domestic friction and have no other benefits. [44] As parents, we should not be too strong on our children. The stricter we are, the more rebellious our children will be, which will seriously affect their physical and mental health. [45] Children should not be forced to study too hard. If children are not the material for learning, parents should put it down early. Letting go of children is also letting go of yourself. [46] When a man succeeds, his wife is the happiest; Men are down and out, and the daughter-in-law is often the most disgusting. [47] The oldest in the family is often the most favored by parents, but it is often not the most filial. [46] Between sisters-in-law, don&;t discuss the bride price, and they are afraid to talk about it, and contradictions will come. [49] Parents count money, not in front of their children. [50] Don&;t publicize the scandal at home. The code word is not easy, like friends, Lao Mu wishes you health and happiness every day!