My friend Lizhen is 56 years old, with a pension of 1,290 yuan. She has no house or savings, and she has arranged for the rest of her life. Lizhen is a weak woman, petite and lovely. In the fifth year of marriage, when her daughter was three and a half years old, she divorced her husband. In the second month of divorce, the husband married another woman. In less than half a year, the husband&;s new daughter-in-law gave birth to a pair of twin sons. At this time, Lizhen knew that her husband had betrayed her as early as the marriage. Friends persuaded lizhen and her ex-husband to compensate. Because lizhen divorced, she went out clean, and the house was her mother-in-law&;s name. She got nothing from the divorce. However, Li Zhen is weak in appearance, but strong in heart. She thinks that in this marriage, I get my daughter, which is enough. She is also worried that quarreling with her ex-husband will affect her daughter&;s present life, and she will simply live her own life. The affair with her ex-husband has become a thing of the past. Before the divorce, the ex-husband promised to give his daughter living expenses every month. However, after the ex-husband remarried, the living expenses were delayed. She went to her ex-husband&;s house to beg for her daughter&;s living expenses. Once again, I walked into the old house where I lived for five years before, and my heart was full of ups and downs. Lizhen&;s heart was unbalanced, but when she saw a unkempt woman with swollen eyes in the room, she didn&;t fill her two sons with medicine. When she collapsed and cried, Lizhen quickly helped the woman to feed her two sons. Both childr—— Lizhen, the former mother-in-law, takes care of her ex-husband in the hospital. Looking at her ex-husband&;s new home, she thinks that health is everything. Although she is unhappy in her marriage, she is healthy and her daughter never gets sick. This is a blessing from heaven. Lizhen never asked her ex-husband for her daughter&;s support, and she didn&;t. Her ex-husband&;s two sons had a hard time raising them. Lizhen decided to work hard and support her daughter. Lizhen works two jobs to support her family. Lizhen works in a factory near her home, and can pick up and drop off her daughter when she gets to and from work. Neighbors are doing small business outside, so they don&;t have time to pick up their daughters. Seeing that Lizhen has time to pick them up, they entrust their daughters to Lizhen. Lizhen not only has to take back the children of her neighbors, but also take care of their dinners and help her with her homework. Sometimes the neighbors don&;t come back at night when they load the goods, and Lizhen has to arrange for the children to stay. These are all recorded in the book one by one. The pick-up and drop-off is a sum of money, the cost of tutoring homework, the cost of eating and the cost of staying for a long day are all calculated separately. Li Zhen remembered the rules and regulations. At the end of the month, she gently handed the account book to the neighbors for inspection. Finally, she said, &”;I will not accept the cost of washing clothes for your children because they are neighbors.&”; Neighbors saw that Lizhen was weak, but the accounts were clear, the house was clean, the food was delicious, their daughters were all fat, and their lessons were much better than before, so they simply decided that their daughters would stay at Lizhen&;s house for a long time, and the expenses would be deducted on that day. Lizhen relies on working, babysitting her neighbors, paying rent, paying three meals a day and paying her daughter&;s tuition and fees. Her life has been well lived by her.. Later, the neighbor introduced Li Zhen to two long-term care children, but Li Zhen only accepted one because the other was a boy. Safety is important. In this way, apart from going to work every day, Lizhen takes the children to and from school, cooks for them at night and helps them with their homework. During this period, someone introduced lizhen to someone and advised lizhen to take another step. Lizhen thought that if she remarried, she would devote half of her mind to taking care of her husband and managing the relationship between her husband and her family, then it would be impossible to take care of her daughter as carefully as she is now. She was also afraid that remarriage would affect her daughter&;s mood. Later, she turned down the matchmaker. It&;s a pity for Lizhen that her friends are young and beautiful. If she marries again, she may meet a man who cherishes her and help her raise her children, so she won&;t have to work so hard. But Li Zhen said that it is worth it to look at her daughter&;s happy smile. In a flash, more than ten years passed, and Lizhen&;s daughter was admitted to college. Lizhen used the savings accumulated over the years for her daughter to go to college. The daughter then took the postgraduate exam, all of which were hard-earned by Lizhen. After her daughter takes part in the work, she will send back 1,000 yuan to Lizhen every month, so that Lizhen can take good care of her body and buy whatever she likes. But lizhen is reluctant to spend her daughter&;s money. Every time her daughter sends money back, she deposits it. This is her daughter&;s passbook, and she never moves. Over the years, Lizhen has always insisted on paying social security, but because she is providing education for her daughter, Lizhen paid low-grade social security. When she retired, Lizhen&;s pension was less than 1,000 yuan. However, Lizhen was very satisfied. She got a fixed salary every month, like giving her a reassurance, and her life was much more stable at once. Since retirement, Lizhen&;s family has stopped recruiting long-term care children. She has relaxed for one year. In this year, her daughter joined the work, and she no longer has to provide education for her daughter. Life is really comfortable. However, when she was 51 years old, her daughter got married, and soon after, her daughter gave birth to a son. Lizhen quickly went to her daughter&;s home by train to take care of her little grandson. Daughters and sons-in-law are also working-class, and it is too expensive to hire a nanny in a big city. Besides, a nanny can&;t take care of a baby carefully. Lizhen takes care of her little grandson wholeheartedly in her daughter&;s home, and also takes care of her daughter&;s son-in-law&;s daily life and diet. She can&;t bear to part with her daughter, and she cooks good food for her daughter every dinner. The son-in-law is very satisfied with Lizhen, and asks Lizhen not to leave in the future, so she will live here and give her a pension in the future. When the son-in-law said it, she was absolutely sincere, and Lizhen took it seriously, so she decided to live in her daughter&;s house for the rest of her life. But she spent a long time with her daughter and son-in-law, but gradually found many contradictions. People in big cities, especially the couple, have high academic qualifications, treat people and things differently, and they are different from Lizhen. Lizhen never uses diapers for her little grandson. She always uses diapers to save money. But the daughter and son-in-law insisted on using diapers. My daughter never uses a rag at home, but always uses paper towels. This Lizhen can&;t accept it either, and she thinks it&;s too wasteful. In educating children, there are also contradictions between her and her daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law is too strict in disciplining children. Three-year-old children have to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry every day, and they have to learn to read and dance. Lizhen feels that children are too tired, but she can&;t persuade her daughter-in-law. The little grandson is more than 3 years old and less than 4 years old.Hou, Li Zhen&;s daughter&;s mother-in-law has retired and will come to look after her grandson. In-laws said to Lizhen, &”;You have been taking care of it for three years, and you are too tired. From now on, I will take care of my little grandson, so that you can have a good rest and enjoy your old age.&”; Lizhen&;s daughter and son-in-law had a quarrel because of this matter. Lizhen&;s daughter said to her son-in-law, &”;You promised to provide for my mother&;s old age. Now come and look after my grandson. Where should I put my mother?&”; The son-in-law said, &”;I didn&;t expect my mother to come either, but my mother&;s coming is also good for us. My mother&;s retirement salary will be spent in our house. Otherwise, we will give a monthly pension of 1,000 yuan, and we will also have a pension. Small citi——. &”;Lizhen&;s daughter said,&”; I have no fac——. &”;Lizhen could not bear to embarrass her daughter. Besides, she also felt that living with her daughter for a long time has weakened her feelings. It is not as good as when her daughter went to college for graduate school, when her mother and daughter were lovesick the most and her heart was recently. Although Lizhen is weak in appearance, she has a strong heart. At that time, her pension, together with her previous savings, had a deposit of more than 100,000 yuan, and she would have a fixed pension every month, so she was not worried about how to spend the rest of her life. Lizhen said to her daughter, &”;I am relieved that your mother-in-law will take care of the children, so I will go home. As long as you live well and comfortably, mom can do whatever she wants.&”; Lizhen&;s daughter is crying. She can&;t bear to part with her mother, but she is a married woman and has to take care of her husband and her in-laws She promised to send money to lizhen every month. Lizhen said no, I have a pension and I still have savings. When lizhen came home, her friends got together, and some friends scolded lizhen: &”;why are you so weak and so easy to bully?&”; You brought up your grandson, your children went to kindergarten, and your in-laws came to pick the fruits of victory. Why? &”; Lizhen just smiled faintly and said, &”;As long as my daughter is well, everything doesn&;t matter.&”; Friends all think that Lizhen is too weak, but they have to admire Lizhen: even when the average woman returns home, she will complain, and even scold her daughter-in-law and her in-laws, but Lizhen just smiles faintly and can&;t hear a word of complaint. Soon, Lizhen&;s father fell ill and was hospitalized. Lizhen&;s father gave birth to two children, Lizhen and his younger brother. The two brothers and sisters shared their father&;s medical expenses, but Lizhen spent all her savings and still failed to keep her father. After his father left, he left a building with one room and one living room. My brother&;s family has a house, but my sister-in-law wants this building. My brother&;s family gave birth to a second child a few years ago. My sister-in-law said to Lizhen, &”;Your daughters are all married, and they are so well married. Our youngest son is still studying, so it costs more money for childr——&”; Lizhen did not argue with her brother for a house. Originally, Lizhen never cared about her father&;s legacy. Brother wants his father&;s house, so take it. Lizhen is such a character, she does not dispute or rob, but she is such a woman who works hard by herself. This time, when friends get together again, no one will scold Lizhen. If Lizhen competes with her brother for a house, it will not be our Lizhen. Lizhen lost her mother when she was a child. Now that her father has left, Lizhen has begun to arrange for the rest of her life. No house, no savings,There is only a monthly pension of more than 1,000 yuan, but Lizhen is not afraid at all. She feels that she is in good health, and it is no problem to work for another ten years. After ten years, she will not work and completely enter the old-age life. Lizhen is a care worker this time, caring for a 74-year-old woman. The old lady is a little lame, but she can take care of herself. Lizhen washes, cooks and cleans the room for the old lady every day, and stays at the old lady&;s house at night. The old lady is a person who likes to chat, so Lizhen chats with her. Lizhen speaks softly and softly, but she is optimistic and humorous, and always makes the old lady happy. Lizhen has a monthly income of 3,000 yuan for care, and her daughter pays her back 1,000 yuan each month. Lizhen still has more than 1000 pensions at the end of the month. Add it up, it&;s more than 5 thousand yuan a month Lizhen is very content. She feels that although she is old, it is her highlight moment now. When can she earn so much money every month? Lizhen is a frugal person. She works as a live-in nanny in the old lady&;s house. She doesn&;t even have to spend money on paper towels, and she doesn&;t have to take care of utilities. She has three meals a day at the old lady&;s house, and they can do whatever they like. Lizhen thinks that life is good. She can save 5,000 yuan a month. She thinks that after ten years of doing this, she can have a deposit of 500,000 to 600,000 yuan. It&;s really good! However, something unexpected happened. After the winter, the old lady caught a cold and could not afford to get sick. Finally, she was sent to the hospital. Lizhen stayed in the hospital for half a month, but the old lady still left. Lizhen helped the old lady get dressed and saw her off for the last trip. Lizhen returned to the old lady&;s house, packed her luggage and was ready to leave. When she went downstairs, she was stopped by a family living in the corridor, Li Dage. Li Dage is a retired cadre. He already knows that the old lady cared for by Lizhen has passed away. He wants to ask Lizhen to be his nanny, with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan and the same salary. Lizhen didn&;t leave the corridor and went to Li Dage&;s house directly. At first, lizhen felt a little inconvenient to share a room with a single man. However, Li Dage is a good person. He has regular meals three times a day. He practices calligraphy in the morning and chats with old comrades in the afternoon. Lizhen only needs to clean up the room, do laundry and cook. Li Dage&;s sons and daughters are all abroad and haven&;t come back for two or three years. Usually there are no guests at home, and life is quiet. After a while, Li Dage suddenly developed symptoms of cerebral infarction. Lizhen hurriedly sent Li Dage to the hospital. She called her son and daughter, but neither of them could return to China, so Lizhen had to take care of Li Dage in the hospital. Because of the prompt medical treatment, Brother Li was discharged from the hospital ten days later. Lizhen is kind-hearted, and has been taking good care of Brother Li in the hospital. Help Brother Li go to the toilet and wash his body. She didn&;t want to do this at first, but Li Zhen couldn&;t bear to see Li Dage lying alone in bed, so she did it. After doing it, she felt that there was nothing difficult. One month after he was discharged from the hospital, Li Dage basically recovered. He said to Lizhen, &”;Marry me and pay me every month. When I die in the future, I will leave this house to you.&”; Lizhen said, &”;I don&;t want a house. In the future, I will argue with your children because of the house.&”; Li Dage directly called his children and told them all about his marriage to Li Zhen, the nanny.Including that he will leave a will and give the house to lizhen. Li Dage&;s children all agreed, saying that since Aunt Lizhen can take care of her father&;s old age, we are relieved that it is right to leave the house to her. &”;Li Zhen took care of Li Dage for such a long time. She felt that Li Dage was a nice person, had no bad habits, was self-disciplined and knew that she was distressed. Once, Li Zhen cut vegetables and cut her hands. Brother Li refused to let Li Zhen cook and wash clothes for several days, so Brother Li invited Li Zhen to eat in a restaurant outside. Lizhen called her daughter, and her daughter hurried back. Seeing that Li Dage was kind to Lizhen, she agreed to remarry. The daughter also promised Lizhen that after marriage, she would send Lizhen a pension fee every month. The daughter also said to Li Dage: &”;Uncle Li, you just be good to my mother. If my mother is ill, I will contribute and won&;t bother you. &”; Uncle Li was unhappy and said, &”;If Lizhen marries me, she will be my wife, and I will take care of everything. Otherwise, I am not worthy to be Lizhen&;s husband!&”; Lizhen now has a home and a house, and she can still save 50 thousand yuan every year. When our friends get together again, everyone looks at Lizhen with a smile and says: Lizhen has a good heart, is kind and simple, and lives an optimistic life. Therefore, she will meet the beauty she deserves in the second half of her life. Written at the end: A woman in her fifties, although she has no house or money, has a monthly pension of more than 1,000 yuan, which will make her feel at ease and have confidence in her life. If you live an optimistic life, you will be healthy. A healthy body is great wealth. If a woman in her fifties is in good health, she can continue to work for a period of time and find a satisfactory job. The salary is not high, as long as she is satisfied. Women in their fifties have a monthly pension, and they have no burden of supporting the elderly and raising small children. In fact, it is the golden age of women. Maybe, you can meet your second spring! I am Su Laosan, and I like my article. Please help me to like and comment. thank you