Buying a house is bitter, buying a house is tired, and after buying a house, you are suffering! I bought a house in 2017, and my parents have no money. I basically rely on myself to buy a house, and the down payment is not enough. I still borrowed tens of thousands from my relatives and friends to pay the down payment together, with a loan of 500,000 yuan, which is still 30 years and 3,000 yuan per month. The pressure is huge. Children have to go to school, have no hukou, and have to buy a house. More than two years have passed, and the money borrowed from relatives has not been paid back yet. Paying off the mortgage every month is just enough to live, and there is no extra money, not to mention 10000. Now I can&;t get it even if I ask for 5000. I lost my job last month. When I got home, I couldn&;t sit still for a day. I was so anxious that I quickly went out to find a job. If I can&;t find a job, I won&;t be able to live here for a month. My wife and children have no food and can&;t afford the mortgage! No matter how hard the work is, you must do it, and you can&;t rest for a day. Also, since buying a house, the house price has basically not risen, but has also fallen. If you want to sell the house now and sell it to others at a loss, it may not be wanted, so now you can&;t enter it, but you can&;t return it! This is the life after buying a house, which is equivalent to living on the edge of a cliff. Every step should be careful! There can&;t be any mistakes! I can only pray for myself silently in my heart.