It was only after my granddaughter was one year old that I really understood how large an old man&;s house should be. My family had two suites three years ago, one for rent and one for self-occupation. A 68-square-meter old house for rent in the old city. Now I live in a 76-square-meter apartment with two bedrooms and one living room. My son in junior high school lives in one room, and my husband and wife live in one room. My parents-in-law have passed away, and my mother and brothers and sisters all live in this city. Family interaction means having dinner in the living room at home and then going back to their homes. My son graduated from junior high school at the age of 15 and was admitted to a juvenile class of a 985 university in other places. He only went home for a few days during the winter and summer vacations and holidays, and his room was usually unoccupied. I have the habit of watching my mobile phone at night (I used to read books, but now I watch my mobile phone). I don&;t start turning off the lights until 12 o&;clock. I go to bed late at night and sleep late in the morning. My husband must rest before ten o&;clock in the evening. He can fall asleep in two minutes, get up at five o&;clock in the morning, then drink water in the house and go to the toilet to wake me up. With the growth of age, my husband began to snore at night. When I was ready to go to sleep at 12 o&;clock in the evening, my husband was sleeping soundly, snoring like thunder, making me toss and turn. In order not to disturb each other&;s rest, my son&;s room is just idle, so I will go to my son&;s room at night. My son&;s bed is the size of a double bed in the past, 1500×2000. One person has a bed, and he can turn over as he wants. No longer have to worry about turning over and facing my husband&;s heavy breathing, and listening to his snoring with his back to him. Once the husband and wife sleep in separate rooms, it is wonderful to be clean and comfortable. My son went to school in other places for eight years, and after graduation, he chose to work in other places. Without winter and summer vacations, he came back less often, and sometimes he didn&;t go home during the Spring Festival holiday. So, my two rooms and one living room, my husband lives in one room and I live in one room, which is completely enough. I never thought of changing a large house. At first, I thought, if my son went back to his hometown to work, we would redecorate two houses at home, one for his son&;s wedding room and the other for us to live in. There is no need to buy a big house. It is inconvenient for the family to be crowded together. Now, since my son is working in other places and doesn&;t go home, we bought him a 126-square-meter wedding room near his work unit. After two years of marriage, my son had a granddaughter. Affected, they never went home and stayed in the field for the New Year. A little better, one day, my son suddenly said that he could take his granddaughter home for two days on a temporary holiday for a few days. My granddaughter is two years old and has never come back. Friends and relatives here also want to meet the children. When I heard that my son&;s family of three came home, I was happy and worried at the same time. At this time, I found that my son&;s bed was not spacious enough, and my son and daughter-in-law could live alone. Now I have a two-year-old baby, and three people are lying in a bed, which is crowded. The bed where my son slept was still used when he was in junior high school. We originally wanted to change it for him when he got married. My son and daughter-in-law said that there was no need to buy a new bed because the time to go home was limited. After listening to what our son said makes sense, we didn&;t get a new bed, but just put the word &”;red happiness&”; on his old room and decorated it as a festive wedding room. What should I do if there is one more baby and the bed is not spacious? As it happens, there is a children&;s bed at my relative&;s house.Just bring it to the rescue and let the granddaughter sleep in the crib. My son went home for two days, and when the three of them left, I realized that my house with two bedrooms and one living room was too small. In a few years, when the granddaughter grows up, she will follow her parents back to her hometown to visit her grandparents, and her granddaughter will have to live in a separate room. The 76-square-meter, two-bedroom and one-bedroom apartment we now live in simply can&;t meet the needs of five people. If you don&;t buy a big house, it&;s inconvenient and not the best solution for my son&;s family of three to come back to live in a hotel. Another house in the old city of my home, after more than ten years of renting, has already become old and small, and it is impossible to live without decoration. Even if the house is redecorated, the distance between the two houses is too far. It is emotionally unreasonable for children to go home all the way to visit their parents and not live with them. The only way to solve the problem is to sell the old house in the old city and buy a large-area house with three bedrooms and two halls. After discussing with my son, considering that we are getting older and older, we can&;t live without people to take care of us. My son suggested that we buy a large house in the city where he lives to take care of us. The son&;s analysis makes sense. If we buy a big house here, it is convenient for the three of them to come back to live. They only stay for a few days a year, and most of the time they are vacant, and we have to clean up. Following my son&;s advice, we went to the suburb of my son&;s city and bought a large suite of 129 square meters in a beautiful place as our retirement home. The reason why I want to buy a house in the suburbs is that my son&;s family already has two houses in the main city, which is enough for our two families to live separately. We buy a new house in the suburbs, and when we get old, we will support the elderly here. On holidays, my son&;s family of three came to take us to travel around, and stayed with us without going back to their home at night. The air in the suburbs is fresh and there are many tourist attractions. The children&;s family usually work and study in the main city, and return to the suburbs to breathe fresh air on holidays, and accompany their parents by the way, killing two birds with one stone. The old man is between 60 and 70 years old, and his body is still healthy. There is still a long time to leave the nursing home. During this period, we need to spend happy time with our children, cook something delicious at home on holidays, invite them to taste it, and experience the happiness of children and grandchildren around their knees, which is also a kind of enjoyment of life. With the growth of age, the elderly are increasingly inseparable from the care of people. If they can support the elderly at home, they will have a house to live in. If they don&;t want to support the elderly at home, they will go to a nursing home to live. If the economic conditions permit, the elderly will replace their old dilapidated small houses with large houses with three bedrooms and one living room, and the children will be happy to live in their parents&; homes, which is conducive to their health and longevity.