Thank you for your invitation. It&;s a great honor. If children want to be better, parents must first become better. A loving relationship between husband and wife, a good family atmosphere and harmonious family members must be the necessary conditions for cultivating excellent children. Adult&;s life is wonderful because of children, and adult&;s life is colorful because of children. Cultivating excellent children is not an overnight task, but a long way to go. Home is the ecological home for children to grow up, but also the spiritual home for children to grow up. Home is the habitat for children. A family with strong &”;fireworks&”; shows that parents are warm, loving and nurturing. Based on this, parents must pay attention to their children&;s self-confidence. Confident children are full of confidence and hope in doing things independently, and never give up easily in the face of difficulties and setbacks. We must pay attention to children&;s curiosity. Confident children have the ability to analyze and solve problems by themselves. This is a kind of spiritual excitement and joy for children&;s self-confidence, which inspires children&;s ability to keep thinking and exploring all the time. We must pay attention to the child&;s concentration. When a confident child does something, he has no distractions, no distractions, high concentration, and wholehearted attention. Such a child will have hope of success. If so, children will be confident and optimistic, curious and focused, cheerful and open-minded, sunny and healthy, which will definitely make them have clear goals, pay attention to action, exclude external interference in their thoughts of doing good deeds, and devote themselves wholeheartedly to their study and life, and be a man and do things. &”;Life is education&”; and &”;Education and life&”;. The future has come. In today&;s embrace of the future, wise parents must learn to let go. Letting go is to liberate children&;s hands, legs, eyes, mouth, brain, space and time, and to cultivate children&;s ability to do things independently, live independently and take care of themselves. Wise parents must learn to respect. Respect children&;s correct choices, respect children&;s under the constraints of rules, respect children&;s reasonable communication, and enrich children&;s wings to fly their dreams. Wise parents must learn to accompany. Accompanying is not keeping silent, not doing what you do and doing what I do, not playing with what you do and playing with me, but carrying out necessary, timely and correct psychological correction and soul repair when the child is confused, going to nature with the child, embracing, feeling and exploring nature, moving with the child, cheering for life, and cultivating the child&;s healthy body, good thinking and perseveranc《礼记·中庸》&;s words: &”;Be knowledgeable, interrogate, think carefully, distinguish clearly and do it faithfully.&”; Erudition is that in today&;s Internet, we should not only guide children to learn book knowledge, but also pay attention to life knowledge, knowledge of nature and social knowledge; Interrogation is to guide children to believe that they dare to question, consider that they dare to explore, &”;I will save myself three times a day&”;, and always review the right and wrong in their study and life with rational spirit and critical thinking; Deliberate thinking is opening.The potential of children&;s life, the world where children grow up, teaching children to analyze problems in independent thinking, educating children to solve problems in independent thinking, and helping children to improve themselves in independent inquiry; Distinguishing is to help children know the truth, goodness and beauty and identify the false, evil and ugly. Distinguish between true and false, distinguish between good and bad, cultivate children&;s political identity, improve children&;s national consciousness, establish children&;s cultural self-confidence and cultivate children&;s civic personality in the feelings of home and country. What we should do is to educate our children to learn something, to think something, to use what they have learned, to love themselves, their family, their country and their party, to &”;know and do as one&”; and to be good. &”;If you don&;t want to learn, you can&;t become a talent if you don&;t learn.&”; At the moment when the &”;learning revolution&”; and &”;learning change&”; are dizzying, autonomous learning, cooperative learning, inquiry learning, project learning, blended learning, inclusive learning, gamification learning, deep learning and AI empowerment learning have expanded learning from static classroom to dynamic scene, and from knowledge acquisition to practical action. It is the network that opens the link between people and the world. The walls of the campus can no longer stop the flow of information, and teachers are no longer the only knowledge providers. Faced with such a situation, parents should first give their children the right to learn, understand and explore; It is necessary to establish a child&;s learning support system to help children overcome knowledge barriers; Make children apply what they have learned. In this way, children will have confidence, motivation and goals in learning, so that children can realize real learning. &”;Tian Xingjian, the gentleman strives for self-improvement, the terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with virtue.&”; Responsibility is the basis for a person to settle down. A child who has no sense of responsibility and value orientation has a difficult road to growth and a bumpy road to success. Wise parents must treat their children well and not spoil them. Children&;s affairs are not arranged, and children&;s friends do not replace them. We must restrain children from indulging, regulate children from indulging, and guide children to be disobedient; Must be able to educate, moderate but not authoritarian, civilized but not arbitrary; Be sure to keep pace with your children, match words with deeds, set an example by parents&; words and deeds, and finish what your children do independently. Parents correctly guide the beginning and the end, and children have rules and regulations in their study and life. With the love, patience and care of parents, guide children to success and experience happiness. Being responsible is the cornerstone for children to go to the society smoothly, experience the pleasure of work, gain family happiness and realize the success of their careers. Every child has his own life appearance, and more importantly, his spiritual appearance. The process of cultivating children is a process in which parents and children grow up together, progress together and learn together, and educate people for the party and the country. Life is an irreversible short journey. Only by letting children live frankly, spontaneously and naturally can we hope to cultivate excellent children. It is not only a &”;golden house, Yan Ruyu&”;, but also a stronger country and a prosperous world. I am Ruoshui: focusing on school education, family education, children&;s growth, etc., focusing on Wukong&;s question and answer. Welcome to pay attention! (Original by the author, all rights reserved) December 5, 2019