Hello:
1. &”;Should this marriage be divorced? I don&;t think you are right. The choice you can make is: divorce or live a good life: find a way to make him take on his responsibilities. If you really can&;t change him, divorce early and go your own way. Life is too short. In this world for decades, you have to live up to yourself every day. How can you consume energy? If you go on like this, you will spend your priceless youth.
2. My suggestions are:
(1) You don&;t have to rush to divorce now. For the sake of the children and your once feelings, give him another chance: don&;t spend the money you earn on him, tell him that he must find a job, and you must bring the child a monthly living allowance of XX yuan (the amount you negotiate with him according to the local basic living standard). If he can&;t cash it in two months, you divorce him: an irresponsible husband, what if he doesn&;t have him?
(2) No matter what attitude his parents have, whether they earn money or not, you are only married to a husband, and he must assume the responsibilities of husband and father. Your parents or his parents can help you take care of your children and give you some money. You should know the return; There is no need to resent not helping you, not giving money. Your parents have helped you a lot: you don&;t have to pick on your in-laws because of this, just because they have to pay the same. You can keep your parents&; love in mind and repay them when conditions permit.
(3) About the custody of the child: The child is one and a half weeks old. Under normal circumstances, it is your custody and he pays the maintenance fee. It is not so easy for him to want custody unless you have the following circumstances: &”;(1) Suffering from an infectious disease or other serious diseases that cannot be cured for a long time, and the child is not suitable to live with it; (two) there are conditions for raising children, but the parents require their children to live with them; (3) For other reasons, the children really cannot live with their parents. &”;